It is the time of the year, again, when we break open our shiny new planners and start dreaming big. Next year will be different! I can feel it! Of course, as the saying goes, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. So, this year, I would like to invite you to try something different!

“When you can’t change the direction of the wind – adjust your sails” is an inspirational quote from writer H. Jackson Brown, Jr. It has depth and meaning if things are going on in the life that you cannot control.

The only issues you can change are the ones over which you have some control. Therefore, you need to find a way to adjust your sails and look to the future rather than spending more time on what is not working.

When a sailor knows a storm is coming from a particular direction, he or she will adjust their sails and let the wind blow them in the opposite direction. Remaining on the same course would mean being caught up in ...

Part of good health is self-care. But, self-care is a routine that appears foreign to most women. Probably because most have learned to put themselves last and take care of the needs of others first. That is backward thinking because you cannot help anyone else until you first help yourself.

Start by letting go. Too many women hold on to performing tasks because they feel guilted into doing it. They manage issues or deal with other people's responsibilities that they do not want to do in the first place.

It is tough to decline invitations you do not want to say yes to or stop doing what people you care about want you to do, even though you do not want to do it. Sometimes, it can also be hard to say no to ourselves.

That happens when you have a fixed mindset. You create a mental checklist of what you "should" do. For 2020, decide that you will say no to handling or doing anything that you do not wish to have in your life.

It is okay to skip the big family meetings that e...

Jesus Christ was born circa 4-6 B.C. in Bethlehem, just outside of Jerusalem. After the birth of Jesus and the narrative around his first visitors, we get just one glimpse of Jesus as a young boy before the camera stops for nearly twenty years.

Jesus visited Jerusalem at age 12 and became separated from them. He was later found in a temple, discussing religious affairs with some of Jerusalem's elders.

He went home and was obedient to his parents. "And he went down with them, and came to Nazareth, and was subject unto them: but his mother kept all these sayings in her heart." - Luke 2:51

Jesus' baptism by John the Baptist at the Jordan River was one of the first acts of His public ministry. This was the scene of the very first appearance of the Trinity to man. 

We go from baby to pre-teen to grown-up in just a couple of chapters. 

What are we to make of this silent period?

What does this mean for us and our day-to-day life? 

The journey of Jesus is a visio...

The changing of the year often generates parties and excess. Instead of being careless, I choose to meet the New Year safely. I softly say goodbye to the year that is departing. I contemplate on all it brought me - good and bad - and choose to focus on the good. There are many accomplishments I am proud of in the past year.

Looking back at things that took place last year, I decide what I need for the New Year. I realize what to avoid and what I want to see more of in the upcoming months. I choose happiness, joy, and peace. These are all gifts I can bestow on myself. I consider their importance and value and vow to keep them in my life throughout the New Year.

Because I possess these gifts, I share them with others. I make the world better and brighter since I am happy to share what I know. I freely offer my happiness and joy to others. I present them peace with no strings attached. I get much satisfaction from encouraging others.

I serenely let go of one year as I greet th...

🌟 How Different Would Your Life Be If Every Day…

You Shared Your Vision for the Future and Why the People in Your Life Are Essential?

Every one of us is carrying a vision — a picture of what could be… should be… might be.
But too often, that vision stays tucked away in the corners of our mind, hidden under the weight of the day-to-day.

And yet — how different would your life be if you spoke that vision aloud?
What would shift if you shared what God has placed on your heart and told the people in your life how deeply they matter in bringing it to life?

🌿 Vision Brings Clarity to Chaos

We live in a world full of noise, distraction, and busyness.
It is easy to drift… to forget what you are working toward… to feel disconnected from purpose.

But when you speak your vision, it:

• Refocuses your steps

• Energizes your decisions

• Creates alignment with others

Habakkuk 2:2 (KJV) says:

“Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it.”

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I LOVE this time of year!

Women are all in full swing trying to finish this year STRONG (I hope!).

A lot of women are crushing it right now. I see a lot of momentum in our Life Coach for Ladies groups. It is amazing!

Many are discovering what is working, what is not, and where progress and momentum are happening in their lives (or not!).

With so little time left this year, women know that they need to be on their A-game.

That is why for me, as a high-performance coach, these next 3 months are like my Super Bowl...

Clients always reach out this time of year, and I love it. They need a ton of help, and I book outcome-focused sessions like nobody's business. I still spend a ton of time coaching 1-on-1 or group. I love it!

Coaching is about the client and a process that is proven to help them reach their potential faster. All coaching is ultimately about conversations of discovery, decisions, discipline, and direction. I help clients master that process to improve their lives and achieve...

A Christmas Reflection
In a manger low, the Savior lay,
God’s perfect gift on Christmas Day.
Not wrapped in gold or earthly pride,
But clothed in grace the world could not hide.

He came to bring the lost ones home,
To break our chains, to make us known.
So as we end this fleeting year,
Let hope arise, cast off all fear.

With hearts renewed and lifted eyes,
We seek His will, we chase the skies.
Let faith be firm, our steps be sure,
For in His love, we are secure.

As the final quarter of the year unfolds, it presents not merely a moment to conclude past endeavors, but rather a vibrant opportunity to reset, refocus, and recommit to our goals and dreams. This time of year invites us to grow, to learn from our experiences, and to evolve into versions of ourselves that are even more resilient and capable than before. 

It can be all too easy to fall into a rhythm of slowing down, coasting through the days, or feeling as though the sands of time have run out. However, remember that the journey...

🌟 A Christmas Eve Personal-Development Journey for Christian Women

Christmas Eve is a holy hush—a sacred pause between the ordinary and the extraordinary. While the world finishes its final errands and children watch the clock, heaven invites us to lean close to the manger once again. For Christian women who long to mature in faith, character, and purpose, this night offers more than nostalgia; it offers a living lesson in personal development.

1. Receive the Gift of Presence

“And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us…”
—John 1:14 KJV

Personal growth begins with presence. Jesus did not remain distant; He stepped into history, into humility, into humanity. Pause this evening, silence every notification, and notice Emmanuel—“God with us”—right where you are. Cultivating presence sharpens your awareness, strengthens your relationships, and opens your heart to God-appointed opportunities.

Practice:
Sit by the tree or the candlelight for five unhurried minutes. Breathe dee...

In a world that often glorifies busyness and hustle, sleep can feel like a luxury we do not have time for. Yet, as Christian women striving to live with a Truth Mindset, we must recognize that rest, particularly sleep, is a gift from God—an essential part of caring for both our bodies and our spirits. In this blog, we explore how a Truth Mindset reframes sleep as an act of trust in God’s provision, allowing us to rest fully, knowing that He is in control.

KJV Scripture:

"It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep." — Psalm 127:2 (KJV)

This verse speaks to the futility of overworking ourselves. No amount of staying up late or waking up early will give us the peace and rest that only God can provide. With a Truth Mindset, we learn to surrender our need to control everything and trust that God will take care of us—even while we sleep.

Zig Ziglar Quote:

"Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass...

Christmas would not be Christmas without Christ. The holiday overflows with wonder, love, and joy. There is something extraordinary about Christmas and the feelings you felt as a child about that time of year.

It is not just about toys and presents, but the true meaning of the holiday is essential. But as women age, we tend to lose that reality. Christmas has gotten so commercialized that we hardly remember the true meaning of Christmas.

Sharing Christ: Planning a Christ-Centered Christmas

Each year we seem to lose a bit more of the true meaning of Christmas. God arrived in the world as Christ. He walked together with us as a man. His name is Immanuel which signifies “God is with us”. He appeared here on Earth to redeem us back to Himself and forgive all our sins. Christmas is about Him.

What if you could get back to the true meaning of Christ Christmas?

What if you could make the holiday this year about sharing Him and having beautiful feelings of joy, love, and won

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