Why Christian Women Need Devoted Time Alone with God

Withdrawing to Pray Like Jesus

In our world of constant noise, schedules, and demands, Christian women often struggle to find quiet moments with God.

We long for deeper connection, yet we feel pulled in too many directions — family, work, ministry, friendships, obligations.

But then we look at Jesus.

“And he withdrew himself into the wilderness, and prayed.” — Luke 5:16 (KJV)

If Jesus, the Son of God, needed to regularly withdraw and pray,
how much more do we?

💔 The Lie: “I am too busy to spend time with God.”

This is a lie many women believe without realizing it.

It sounds like:

• “I will pray when life settles down.”

• “God understands how busy I am.”

• “I need to get everything else done first.”

But here’s the truth:

Truth Declaration:
“Time with God is not extra — it is essential. My soul is nourished in His presence, and my life is strengthened by His Spirit.”

 

🌿 Why Did Jesus Withdraw?

People, needs, and opportunities surrounded Jesus.
But He continually chose communion with His Father over constant activity.

He withdrew to:

• Listen — to hear the Father’s voice above the crowd.

• Align — to stay connected to His purpose and mission.

• Receive strength — to face the demands of His calling.

If Jesus modeled this for us, it is not weakness to pull away — it is wisdom.

💡 3 Ways to Make Space for Communion with God

1️⃣ Find Your “Lonely Place”

It might be a corner chair, a walk outside, or even your parked car.
God is not limited to church walls — He meets you in your everyday spaces.

“Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you.” — James 4:8 (KJV)

2️⃣ Protect the Time

Set a small, realistic goal:

• 5 minutes of silence before your day begins

• A Scripture reading during lunch

• A short evening prayer walk

Small faithfulness builds deep roots.

3️⃣ Go Empty-Handed

You do not need a perfect journal, the right playlist, or fancy words.
Simply come.

Let your heart breathe before God — in praise, lament, gratitude, or quiet.

🙏 Reflection Questions

• Where is God inviting me to withdraw and be with Him?

• What barriers am I putting between myself and quiet time with God?

• How can I practice communion over productivity this week?

🌸 Ready to deepen your spiritual life?

📥 Download the Quiet Time Reflection Guide 

Schedule a Transformational Game Plan coaching call with Coach Sandra to create your personalized rhythm of meeting with God.

Please comment below:
Where will you create your “lonely place” to pray this week?

📖 Final Blessing

“Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.” — Proverbs 31:25 (KJV)

Why Christian Women Need Devoted Time Alone with God