Christian Life Coaching: Women Achieving Targeted Goals Using T.O.W.E.R. Focus

“For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it?” — Luke 14:28, KJV

There is a quiet dignity in the way God teaches us to build. Christian Life Coaching for women is the calm table where you sit down first, open the Scriptures, and shape holy desire into a faithful plan. We do not rush; we reverence. We do not gamble; we govern. We take counsel of God’s Word, align our steps, and move with a peace that outlasts pressure. “Commit thy works unto the LORD, and thy thoughts shall be established.” — Proverbs 16:3, KJV

“Through wisdom is an house builded; and by understanding it is established.” — Proverbs 24:3, KJV
“So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.” — Psalm 90:12, KJV
“Trust in the LORD with all thine heart… and he shall direct thy paths.” — Proverbs 3:5–6, KJV

Planning Is Worship, Not Worry

The world treats goals like a gamble; Scripture treats them like stewardship. A “problem” becomes a challenge entrusted to you; an “obstacle” becomes the next step to solve. Christian Life Coaching helps you translate calling into clear action while keeping your heart anchored in the fear of the Lord. “The thoughts of the diligent tend only to plenteousness.” — Proverbs 21:5, KJV
“Let all things be done decently and in order.” — 1 Corinthians 14:40, KJV

The T.O.W.E.R. Framework

As your coach, I help you walk this path with grace, clarity, and accountability.

T — Target the Aim

Name one clear, kingdom-aligned goal. Vague wishes weary the soul; clarity steadies it.

• Scripture: “Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it.” — Habakkuk 2:2, KJV

• Coaching lens: We sharpen your goal until it is measurable, life-giving, and obedient to Scripture.

O — Outline Resources

List time, talent, training, treasure, and team.

• Scripture: “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God…” — James 1:5, KJV

• Coaching lens: We identify gaps early and set supports in place so the goal is truly achievable.

W — Write Milestones

Break the work into weekly steps with due dates and deliverables.

• Scripture: “Let all things be done decently and in order.” — 1 Corinthians 14:40, KJV

• Coaching lens: We transform desires into actionable steps that honor your season and capacity.

E — Establish Boundaries

Protect margin, say no to distractions, and schedule recovery so you can finish.

• Scripture: “See then that ye walk circumspectly… redeeming the time.” — Ephesians 5:15–16, KJV

• Coaching lens: We create quiet hours, clear limits, and Sabbath rhythms so zeal does not outrun wisdom.

R — Review and Rejoice

Measure, adjust, and give thanks.

• Scripture: “And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord.” — Colossians 3:23, KJV

• Coaching lens: We celebrate progress, prune what hinders, and maintain momentum with gentle adjustments.

Case Study: “Eliana” — From Scattered Effort to Steady Fruit

Context: Eliana is a married professional and church ministry volunteer who longed to launch a values-based consulting offer for women, but she felt pulled in ten directions. She described her life as “overwhelmed.” We reframed both language and plan.

T — Target the Aim: Enroll 8 consulting clients in 60 days, guiding Christian women to structure their work rhythms with Scripture.
O — Outline Resources:

• Time: 6 focused hours weekly on outreach and fulfillment

• Talent: teaching, operational planning

• Training: one workshop on webinar delivery

• Treasure: modest budget for email platform and landing page

• Team: two prayer partners and an accountability check-in with her coach each Friday
  W — Write Milestones:

• Week 1: Clarify offer and pricing; draft landing page

• Week 2: Record two value videos; schedule a live Q&A

• Week 3: Host Q&A; conduct six discovery calls

• Week 4: Onboard clients; begin fulfillment and testimonials
  E — Establish Boundaries:

• Quiet work blocks 7–9 a.m., three days a week

• Social media windows at noon and 4 p.m. only

• Sabbath media fast and family dinner protected
  R — Review and Rejoice:

• Friday 20-minute review: What produced fruit? What needs pruning? One change for next week

• Gratitude list: three specific thanksgiving entries each week

Outcome: Eliana enrolled 9 clients in 56 days, lowered her stress, and strengthened family rhythms. Her “obstacles” became areas for growth with a clear next step to solve each week. “Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God… And the peace of God… shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:6–7, KJV

Word Upgrades While You Build

• “I have a problem.” → “I have a stewardship and a next step.”

• “This obstacle stops me.” → “This is an area for growth; my next step to solve is ____.”

• “I feel overwhelmed.” → “I am at capacity right now; I will create margin and a simple plan.”

Christian Life Coaching trains your tongue to agree with truth, because words guide the work. “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” — Proverbs 18:21, KJV
“Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt.” — Colossians 4:6, KJV

Seven-Day Builder Sprint

• Day 1: Pray and write your Target.

• Day 2: Outline Resources honestly and invite one prayer partner.

• Day 3: Write two Milestones and schedule them on the calendar.

• Day 4: Protect one Boundary and remove one distraction.

• Day 5: Complete Milestone 1; record one gratitude.

• Day 6: Complete Milestone 2; prepare next week’s steps.

• Day 7: Rest, Review, and Rejoice. “Let us not be weary in well doing.” — Galatians 6:9, KJV

Journaling Prompts

1. What tower am I building with God this quarter, and why does it matter eternally?

2. What cost must I count now in time, training, money, energy, and relationships?

3. Where have I seen the Lord’s faithfulness in past assignments, and how will I remember it this week?

Christian Life Coaching for women provides gentle accountability so these answers become the rails on which your week runs.